This is a pretty interesting finding out of a PhD dissertation at Virginia Tech. The basic result is that the hot water recirculation systems touted as "water savers" actually don't save water since extra energy is needed to for pumping and that requires water. Its a good technical read for the energy geeks here if you can get your hands on the the dissertation.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/05/130501192939.htm?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed: sciencedaily/earth_climate/sustainability (ScienceDaily: Earth & Climate News -- Sustainability)
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/05/130501192939.htm?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed: sciencedaily/earth_climate/sustainability (ScienceDaily: Earth & Climate News -- Sustainability)
I think the builder installed a recirc system knowing full well that a high end home should not take very long to get hot water with this amount of money spent. However the propane water heater and both showers are at extreme ends. Without the recirc it takes 15min to get hot water to my shower.