gee, I guess I'm the lone dissenter, here. I use room temp. I don't see any excessive "cycling" of the stove; it maintains a very steady temperature in the house. What people are describing here sounds more like how another brand of stove would function with a thermostat..."hi/low" mode, running like a furnace. The whole point of using "room temp" is to avoid this cycling; if its not working that way, I wonder if its due to poor positioning of the temperature probe. (?)
I found that the 3' length that they give you is inadequate; I don't see how it can possibly work without getting away from the stove. There is no spot within 3 feet of the stove that isn't affected by the radiant heat output.
I don't see how "stove temp" can be more efficient. Its either going to be too much, or too little, as the heat load on the house is constantly changing.
Unless you're using the stove as "supplemental" heat; like, letting your furnace/boiler continue to run, to even out temps in far-reaches of the house. I can see setting the stove for a steady, constant output, and letting the central heating system adjust itself to fill in the gaps, so to speak.
Anyway, my stove acts like an outdoor thermometer. If I want to know how cold it is outside, I can just glance over at the flame on the stove. If its high...its cold out. If its low...its warming up out there...or my wife is cooking something.