Glad things are working out well. As to the Terovar balancing valve setting, make it easy on yourself by getting a probe meat thermometer or "milk frothing thermometer" (search ebay), cable tie it to the boiler return water pipe after the Termovar, wrap it with insulation, and then monitor the actual temp of your return water. Set the balancing valve to maintain (IMO) minimum return water of 140F, or higher up to 160F. Once set, you usually can leave this alone, but if sysem return water is consistently 140F or higher, might want to close the Termovar down a little more, again watching the actual return temperature so that it is not higher than 160F unless system return water is higher than 160F.
As to your other questions ...
I am wondering if any of you Tarm users who have been burning for a while could upload some photos of the inside of your smoke box ......I would like to see how it compares to mine…...also wondered why the unit would not take all the heat thrown at it ....when running a good fire the boiler gets up there to 175 or so and is sending heat to the storage tank, but the tank seams not to be able to always take all the heat being sent….sometimes the boiler goes into idle mode even though the the tank temps are below the 140’s ...any thoughts?
Such photos have been posted, but suffice to say that the smoke box cover, the walls of the smoke box and the plate on top of the hx tubes will collect a moderate amount of flyash over a period of a couple of weeks, should be no creosote of any consequence, and flyash and other accumulations in the smoke box surfaces should easily brush off into dusty material. Vacuum it up or scrape it down the hx tubes, brush the hx tubes regularly, and then pull out the accumulated ash in the bottom of the refractory chamber. Also vacuum out the short flue pipe run from the back of the smoke box to your vertical flue pipe run. IMO, a cleaning every two weeks, or at least when you notice flue temps rising, is good practice -- then brush the hx tubes also. I'm on a pretty consistent 2 week schedule.
The storage tank not taking all the boiler output is a simple equation of btu transfer, which relates to delta-T, gpm, and if an open system and a coil or plate hx, the efficiency of the heat exchanger to storage. Use the same milk frothing thermometers on you boiler to storage pipe and storage return to boiler pipe. That will give you the delta-T. You should be able to approximately, at least, compute your pump head in the boiler/storage loop. Take a look at the circ pump curve for your circ at the calculated pump head and you will have your approximate gpm. Gpm x 500 x delta-T = btu. I think that number, for delta-T=20F, should be about 75% (or higher) of your boiler rating in order to handle normal range of boiler output. Even then at times your boiler will have output greater than storage acceptance and you may experience some idling. But if much less than 75%, idling frequency will increase.
Assume 8 gpm. If delta-T = 20, you can move 80,000 btu output; if delta-T = 30, you can move 120,000 btu output. The higher your delta-T at a given gpm, the easier it is to handle boiler output, and vice versa.
If your tank return to boiler is 170, and boiler output is 185F (delta-T = 15), then you have to move 18 gpm to handle 135,000 btu output, almost the rated capacity of your Tarm, and I'm going to assume that your circ will not move 18 gpm through your boiler/storage loop. Consequence -- idling.
A tip. As your storage temp rises, time your burns or load for burns that are burning down towards the end of tank charging, as boiler output then is falling, and easier to top of your storage without much idling. If you're in high burn and storage is nearing capacity, your boiler output likely will be far in excess of storage capacity to receive at given gpm's. Consequence -- lots of idling.
If you're getting lots of idling and storage return to boiler is less than 140, then you do not have a very efficient hx in your open storage and/or your gpm in this loop is low. If boiler output is 180F, then delta-T = 40, and you only need 7 gpm to move 140,000 btu, your Tarm max rating. I suspect that if boiler output is 180F or higher, storage return is 140F, and you are experiencing idling, then your pump head is high and you are moving, perhaps considerably so, less than 7 gpm.
Hope this is helpful.