Calling family deadbeats is a little harsh. She is now living with the family is she not. I have a 100 year old father that wouldn't move out of his house in Queens. If we made it easy for him, he would still be there and my life would be a train wreck traveling back and forth an hour and 1/2 each way without traffic (like that ever happens). Sometimes things have to get difficult for some people for them to realize they need to move. My father would have stayed there as long as someone would have taken care of him there. There was, no one to take care of him there! Mine now lives with my brother in So. California. He only left because he had to, after a time in the hospital. Luckily we could get him on a plane. .