Unless outdoor temps only require a small load? Why anyone starts a stove on a partial load escapes me? Why extend your babysitting? Why open your heat supply to introduce cold fuel/air and start the entire process over?
Get a full load up and running. Back it down in increments until its cruising. Walk away.
If your setup is correct and your draft suitable for a small load start up, it should make little to no difference starting a full load. I suspect any start up woes are due to wet fuel.
If you are not familiar with Super Cedar brand fire starters. You should be. Zero kindling. Zero futzing. We are not here to practice bushcraft
Simply break a chunk or two off a SC puck and insert between splits. Location in load means little in reality. Top start. Bottom start. Sideways start. Reverse multiplicative start. Whatever. Start chunks. Wait around until you can get the stove to cruise setting. Done. Walk away. Come back when a full re load is necessary. Enjoy.