Sounds like we should talk - we need a support group for this. I started out with cheap sensors and relay logic
I graduated from that, and we now have some professionally installed stuff. The Lighting (Lutron) and Alarm stuff is excellent, CCTV is cheap-Chinese and "passable" (finding a clip is not possible based on, say, "something changed in this area of the field, and "review at 4x speed" isn't anything like 4x ...). The heating stuff is dreadful - little better than the old turn-a-dial thermostats at its best, and at its worst absolutely terrible (parasitic heat usage from midnight to 5am most, but not all, nights that took months to properly diagnose and cure (frost-safety mode even though internal temperature was 5-10C above the frost setting ...), and, on a thermal store / wood-batch boiler basis, parasitic / unexpected / unexplained heat usage is a major disaster as there is then not enough for anticipatable usage - whereas with oil its only money that you are burning!!)
told myself I could stop any time. It wasn't true. It's a slippery slope - temperature sensor here, LED status there
managed to avoid that addiction ... bought books on Electronics, told myself I could learn it, in fact I had done some electronics at skool ... but luckily the books I bought were heavy-end, and not a light read, so I didn't get enough knowledge to get hooked
but spent a lot of money on professionally installed systems instead ... so not all good!
pretty soon you're embarrassing your wife at parties by talking animatedly about latent heat and stoichiometry
I get very few invitations to dinner any more ... I spend far too long telling my rich-*astard mates that whilst I am happy to concede they need a Range Rover to drive across a ploughed field, I tell them they don't need it to take the kids on the school run - just on the off chance that there might be a ploughed field on the way! - and that they can easily afford another, Eco, car for that purpose.
But ... that said ... we moved wholesale from poor fuel economy sports cars to small Eco vehicles, settled on Volkswagen (of which we have 3) and look where that got us?
I will never, ever, buy a vehicle from / trust VW, or any of their associated companies, again). I probably should have looked more closely at battery-powered vehicles last time we changed, I thought they weren't ready for prime-time, but that's going to be my next-time solution.
I eventually ended up with this:
Mine is a bit smarter - just as well given what it cost! Can only find photos during construction though ... I'll take new ones and upload later.