Sort of went through the same process a you this past spring and found this site an enormous help! In the end this is sort of how I would summarize my impressions.
1) For 24/7 burning many people (not all)prefer the soapstone stoves for the slower release of heat and gentler nature etc.
2) Some dislike the slower time to warm a cold room of the sopastone and find the steel /cast stoves superior to quickly get the chill out
3) In general people trend to shy away from the cat stoves with two notable exceptions: 1) the woostock fireview and 2) the VC (as the non-cat, "everburn" VC seems to have some performance issues in some installs and or has a steep learning curve.
4) The woodstock has many loyal and happy burners who have no issues with the cat
5)The woodstock requires you to deal with the shipping PU, and install as there is no dealer network - though the company seems quite helpful
6) Soapstone stoves are more expensive; there are a lot of happy englander and pacific customers who paid less and seem to have stoves that they are very happy with
7) styling matters - In the end you are going to be looking @ it for 10-20 years perhaps,
8) if you have a wife her thoughts on styling are even more important
9) try to match the above considerations with the BTU expectations you have for your heating
In the end I chose the Equinnox as we wanted 24/7 burners, we both work so we wanted longer burn/heat times, we have a larger house (2800-3000 sq ft) with a very open floor plan and many windows and could use the high output. Both my wife and I also liked the look of the soapstone. I did not like the price but as former propane heater with a frequntly heat sucking fireplace burning (purely for the "romance" of it), Mr. Propane man was talking over 4K for the spring Pre-buy (prices were higer then but Cmon). I think we will make a pretty big dent in the purchase price in our first year given that all of my wood was cut from the "back 40", and the heat sucking fireplace is now a heat producer.
Hope this helps
Oh and if its for this year - better hustle: Late to get stoves, late to get them installed and very late for dry wood (though you might have this already by the sounds of it)
EDIT: I did not have an in-line damper installed though I saw the same posts. Installers said it wasn't needed but could add it later if I thought I needed it. Haven't gotten a full firbox of flame going yet but so far the stove looks like it shuts down fine without any additional draft restraint.