A few things first, the concept of well insulated 2500 square foot home really doesn't say much. If you build to Passivhaus standards, you barely need a wood stove. If you build to Pretty Good House standard you also don't need a large heating system, if you aren't familiar with the Pretty Good house concept look at this link
http://www.greenbuildingadvisor.com/blogs/dept/guest-blogs/pretty-good-house. If you are building with standard construction, possibly 6" walls, good windows and insulation on the basement walls, that's the standard these days and then you need a larger heating system. The best way to go is to have someone do a heat load calculation on your proposed design and then pick a system to match it or decide you want to go more radical with your construction techniques.
Another reminder many insurance companies and banks will not insure or make a loan on a house with a wood boiler as the only heating source, they generally require a conventional heating method, oil propane gas or electric. There are wood/oil combo units but you are better off installing two flues and find a deal on a used oil boiler (keep an eye on uncle henrys)
The next issue to consider is your pricing. If you go with gasifier or non gasifier, you really need storage and many gasifier companies will not warranty an installation without storage. Storage and the required piping that goes with it is going to raise the cost of your installation most likely above the $10,000 level. $15,000 for the boiler, storage tank, controls and specialized valving is probably more reasonable for a DIY install. If you have to go cheap spend the money on storage, with a house your size you probably want a minimum of 500 gallons and possibly 1000 gallons and its lot easier to integrate that into the house build than try to install later. I use non a non pressurized tank from AST in Searsport Maine, but if you want to go with a pressurized used propane tank, make sure the welder who modifies it is experienced. Once you have priced out the storage consider buying a used wood boiler from someone on Uncle Henrys, there are good boilers frequently listed with the statement, purchaser must remove, if you have the skills and equipment to remove a 1000 pound plus boiler you can frequently negotiate the price down quite a bit. If you go that route you need to be able to inspect the unit thoroughly and perform a pressure test but pressurizing it with a pressure gauge and then letting it set for awhile to see if the gauge drops down.
The efficiency gains for a gasifier are mostly at part load, if the boiler is properly designed and running full out, a conventional boiler can get close to a gasifier. On the other hand, run at part load and the conventional wood boiler is going to eat wood and need frequent cleaning. With storage you run the boiler flat out so the gasifer is not as important. I have 30 year old Burnham wood boiler, definitely non gasifier. I have cleaned my chimney once in 10 years of running the wood boiler as my primary heat source. I burn dry wood, have a center interior chimney and run it flat out to charge my storage. I inspect the chimney yearly and it generally doesn't need cleaning but I did it once out of general principle. On the other hand my neighbor with a non gasifer Tarm burned partially dried wood with no storage and had to clean his chimney every 6 weeks, had multiple chimney fire plus burned out two liners after his tile flue self destructed in chimney fire.
Brands to look at for non gasifiers are Buderus and Biasi , Gasifers are Froling.
Good luck