we've hit a bit of snag. they're asking for a fairly sizeable (for us) downpayment. i entered this process b/c i thought a downpayment wasn't nec., but they are zeroing in on my wife's 401(k) which, to me, is no touchy. i know you can normally take out a loan on the 401(k), but she is no longer employed with the original company and the plan administrator doesn't do loans. so, we're stuck here. this was in the eligibility cert. but i assumed 'no down payment' so it was something they rolled into the final loan (oops). well, we're not purchasing a house if her 401(k) has to be withdrawn -- that's stupid in my opinion. the lady at the USDA didn't really give us other options except to come up with the money. so, i'm a bit confused, a bit perturbed. they have all of our financial info down to about the penny and know we don't have that money sitting in the bank. and on top of that, every single thing i've read says, 'no down payment'. there is a rule stating you must use excess of $15k in 'non-retirement assets' toward the purchase and the
Underwriting and Loan Closing Documentation Matrix (whatever that is) states under 'Verification of Income: Household Assets' the following:
"Section 1980.347(d)(3)(iii) requires net family assets with a cumulative total of $5,000 or greater to be considered in the annual income calculation. The greater of the actual income derived from all net family assets or a percentage of the value of such assets based on the current passbook savings rate must be considered when calculating annual income. Verification documents must coincide with the type of asset identified for income purposes. Section 1980.302(a) defines net family assets as the value of equity in real property, savings, IRA’s, demand deposits, the market value of stocks, bonds, other forms of capital investments and business or household assets disposed of for less than fair market value for two years preceding the date of loan application (disposition of a trust considered but not inclusion in a foreclosure or bankruptcy).
401k’s are not considered in net family assets."
maybe i'm richer in $$$ than i thought

or they want me to sell my cars, cats, furniture, and clothes? i'm confused.