Jim Buckhorn said:Matter of time, indeed! A happy division of labor is supposed to be the solution. Good luck on your car repair.
"Happy division of labor." Riiiiiiiiiggggghhhhht. If that works for you, then my hat is off to you and yours. Allow me to share, if you will, the "happy division of labor" that exists at my house. (bearing in mind that my wife is a saint and an incredible mother to three beautiful children). She's a full-time mom and is very busy. This is not to gripe about her "not doing anything" - just illlustrating that the division of labor isn't always "happy."
Baby care is almost all her.
If it's cooking (aside from grilling) - it's 90% hers, 10% mine. (grilling is ALL me)
If it's light housework (dusting, etc) - it's almost all my wife's, but is shared with me. (probably 90% - 10%)
If it's heavy housework (cleaning the floors, washing walls, etc) i'ts pretty much 50/50
If it involves poop (aside from a diaper), it's mine. If it's in a diaper its at least 1/3 mine.
If it involves vomit, it's mine.
If it's broken and needs to be fixed, it's mine.
If it is something that happened outside, can happen outside, is talked about outside, is used outside, or was once outside, it's mine.
If it involves vehicles, it's mine.
If it involves technology, it's mine.
There are a LOT of things that are "just mine," and none that are "just hers." I have a LOT of projects, including a 1400 sq ft addition, that are simply a "matter of time" now.
