More than one Alpha? What's your zone & control setup?
I have one Alpha, with 4 heating zones & 1 DHW zone all with zone valves. I simply throttled my DWH flow by closing the isolation ball valve some. It's likely only 1/4 open or so. Pump reads 1 GPM when just it is open.
I have Alpha pumps and valves on the outlet of my heat loads, based solely on your posts.
I run three Alpha's. One on the boiler, one on the DHW and Air water heat exchanger, and one for the radiant floor in the garage.
The DHW and AWHX are on a 3 way zone valve. When call for house heat, the valve sends water just to the AWHX. I throttled that back with a valve to the point where I get 170* in, and about 130* out. When no call for heat, the water circulates through a sidearm, then plate for DHW. I have that choked off so I'm getting 140* return. Alpha reads from 0 to 1 GPM when running through DHW, between 1 and 2 GPM for AWHX.
The Alpha for the garage radiant runs all the time. It circulators water just through the outer edge of the concrete via a manifold with zone valves. When a call for heat, the other three zones open. This was to keep the outer loop from freezing, since I did not insulate the perimeter of the concrete or foundation.
So I have two problems with this setup personally, I'm sure there are lot more for the people in the know. One problem with using a manual valve to throttle water flow, as the storage cools, so does the output of the AWHX. I figured if could have a set return temperature, I can better tune the blower speed to make sure I am getting a good heat output, plus extracting as much useable heat as I can before sending it back to storage. The other problem is I am not getting as good of performance with my sidearm and plate setup as I was with full flow. My logic was that I'm not moving the water through them quick enough. I don't know if that is even the case. I am getting better stratification but, seemed to have sacrificed performance at the heat loads.
In regards to my DHW, I lost 20 degrees of heat by throttling the flow back. I have never been able to get the DHW up to the same temperature of my storage. With 180 water, the DHW would get to 160. Now the best I can get is 130 to 140 and recovery time is much worse.