Your problem it two fold. First, you do not have enough fresh air available to your attic from outside the house. This should come from clear gable vents and/or vents on the side of your house depending on design.
Second, you have some massive air loss from your house into your attic. Climb up there, seal up all the holes, caulk all the seams, box in all the can lights and enjoy a more comfortable/healthy home.
If you are unfamiliar with air loss into the attic just do a search on "air sealing attic". Our terrible quality control when building a house leaves all kinds of ways for air to move from inside the house into the attic. This is done by all the holes the plumber, electrician, framers, cable guy, HVAC tech, and every other numb-scull with a drill put into your studs, sheet rock, seal plate, top plate, and sub-floor. They usually do not seal up the hole with sealant. Then to top all this off you have to look at insulation. If you have fiberglass, and most people do, then all that air just flows right through it.
I was at a house last week that was having an addition done. You could see light under the seal plate!