rwhite
Minister of Fire
You need to convince of all the pro's of a wood burning stove in the living room.
1. These are no longer the big steel hulks they once were. There are very stylish stoves that become a center piece of the room. As others have said they make some that have very small clearances needed now. Even a smaller stove in the 1000 sqft range would probably heat the house sitting the living room better than a monster sitting on that porch.
2. Take her to the stove store and see some. I love watching fire (get one with a viewing glass). It is mesmerizing and provokes thought. You will find yourselves sitting in the living room talking more. So it's really a relationship builder.
3. Show her some of the better plans with custom made hearths and such and convince her you not just going to plop a stove on the floor.
4. Think of the savings (and the things she can get) especially with getting free wood.
5. Is there a fear of children burning themselves? I can tell you that being raised in a house with a stove and having numerous kids come the house there have been very few incidents of burning and they have been limited to a fingertip and they learned after 1 time. There is much more danger in a cook stove than a wood stove. Coffee table and end tables have been the number one cause of trips to the doctor in our house.
6. Stoves really don't take up more "effective space than any other design feature. Take for instance a large clay pot that wife has displayed in the living room. This thing has a 1' footprint. But in order to display it and not look cluttered, nothing is around it for 4-5'. A wood stove don't take much more than that.
7. Convice her that oil heat can still be used. My wife has no desire to carry wood, load a stove or deal with anything having to do with a stove. She likes to turn a thermostat on and be warm. So you will probably be the one using it and let her use the oil when your not around.
8. The final sell (if needed)...Take a picture of you living room and photo shop a stove and hearth you want into it an let her see what it will look like.
1. These are no longer the big steel hulks they once were. There are very stylish stoves that become a center piece of the room. As others have said they make some that have very small clearances needed now. Even a smaller stove in the 1000 sqft range would probably heat the house sitting the living room better than a monster sitting on that porch.
2. Take her to the stove store and see some. I love watching fire (get one with a viewing glass). It is mesmerizing and provokes thought. You will find yourselves sitting in the living room talking more. So it's really a relationship builder.
3. Show her some of the better plans with custom made hearths and such and convince her you not just going to plop a stove on the floor.
4. Think of the savings (and the things she can get) especially with getting free wood.
5. Is there a fear of children burning themselves? I can tell you that being raised in a house with a stove and having numerous kids come the house there have been very few incidents of burning and they have been limited to a fingertip and they learned after 1 time. There is much more danger in a cook stove than a wood stove. Coffee table and end tables have been the number one cause of trips to the doctor in our house.
6. Stoves really don't take up more "effective space than any other design feature. Take for instance a large clay pot that wife has displayed in the living room. This thing has a 1' footprint. But in order to display it and not look cluttered, nothing is around it for 4-5'. A wood stove don't take much more than that.
7. Convice her that oil heat can still be used. My wife has no desire to carry wood, load a stove or deal with anything having to do with a stove. She likes to turn a thermostat on and be warm. So you will probably be the one using it and let her use the oil when your not around.
8. The final sell (if needed)...Take a picture of you living room and photo shop a stove and hearth you want into it an let her see what it will look like.