First, I had a Woodstock Fireview and have now replaced it with a Progress Hybrid- both beautiful stoves, but to me the Progress Hybrid is an entire order of magnitude more advanced than the Fireview...like comparing a 1970's auto to today's versions....
Second, both these stoves have side loading doors and I have never burned myself..not an issue. Any debris from loading wood is to the side, which I prefer. Also, I'm out of the traffic pattern in the home when I am loading the stove...doesn't interfere with anything anyone else is doing. Side loading really is not a concern. Don't know if front loaders have a bigger loading door,,,that might make a difference for some. A larger, front loading door may also be more prone to spilling smoke in the house during loading???I Don't know, but feel I have read that on some blogs. The PH does not spill smoke in my experience, unless it is time to clean the combuster. On the PH, any smoke smell at all while burning seems to be an early easy notification that it is time to clean the combuster. I seem to get a slight whiff of smoke which i notice but others in the home don't seem to, long before there is any chnage is smoke pattern coming out of the chimney.
Thirdly, while the stove top temperature definitely gets into catalytic mode, I find mine burns long and steady right around 380-430 unless I make an effort to increase stove top temp by opening the damper or putting in a really big load of wood. The vast majority of the heat from this stove comes out the front. That said, sitting in a chair next to the stove and four feet away, one definitely feels the warmth of the stove radiate out through the side stove walls, which I would not say was true with the Fireview. One may have been comfortable, but not aware of the warmth.With this stove, it is as if one had gentle sunlight on oneself. I don't think you need to worry about the PH roasting you out of your overhead bedroom. Obviously, home construction will influence amount of heat traveling through the floors. Plain boards on joists will let more heat through than subfloors and wood floors, especially if the wood floors are carpeted or have rugs....That said, the stove top heat will not roast you in your bedroom. However. I don't think you have indicated the size of your home. For anyone with a home under 200 feet range this is probably an unnecessarily great heat producer. That said, if you are willing to burn small loads to control heat output, in a smaller home this will be an incredibly efficient heat producer, requiring far less firewood, hence less cost and/or work associated with wood heating. Also, note that you are in VA...less demand for heat than up north.
Overall, I would say this is a beautiful stove, you would never get tired of viewing it in your living room, you would find it very easy to operate and efficient, and the folks at Woodstock are simply great. They are always interested in any issues their stove owners have, and quick to address such issues, no mtter how slight or significant the problem. They are also ALWAYS courteous.
None of this is meant as a negative about any other stove. My entire experience has been with Woodstock, so I have no knowledge about other stoves...but I also have absolutely no reason to look at any other stove. I did do due diligence in research before buying my first Woodstock, and knew full well when i bought my Fireviewit that it really was not large enough to heat my home satisfactorily. however, given its advantages, I preferred it to a larger but to me less desirable stove. I have never regretted the decision, and watched with interest and expectation while Woodstock developed a stove for larger homes located in cold climates, in response to the interest on the part of their exisitng customers for such a stove. I had such confidence in Woodstock that I was on the list for the new stove long before it was fully developed. I knew they would make a great stove...
Good luck. Hope you have as many enjoyable hours associated with your stove of choice as I have had with mine. No regrets on my part.