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  1. Eatonpcat Minister of Fire

    joined: Jul 24, 2011
    2,039 posts
    Eaton Township, Ohio
    Very sorry to hear Jags...Hang in there my friend!
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  2. begreen Super Moderator

    joined: Nov 18, 2005
    36,119 posts
    South Puget Sound, WA
    This is tragic news Jags, I am greatly saddened by your loss. I knew something was up, but not this bad. There aren't any words to express how badly I feel for you. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
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  3. Seasoned Oak Minister of Fire

    joined: Oct 17, 2008
    2,031 posts
    Eastern Central PA
    Words cant describe the place your in right now Buddy, One day at a time,One day at a time. Perhaps in a small way we can help you get through it.
  4. Jack Straw Minister of Fire

    joined: Dec 22, 2008
    2,013 posts
    Schoharie County, N Y
    I struggle with my faith, but I do believe that during these times the people around you and here on this site should be able to share in your pain and make your burden lighter. I hope that makes sense.
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  5. Delta-T Minister of Fire

    joined: Feb 27, 2008
    2,641 posts
    NH
    i got no words man....hugs. big hugs.
  6. Jags Super Moderator

    joined: Aug 2, 2006
    11,309 posts
    Northern Illinois
    I am finding out that trying to be "as normal" as I can muster is currently the most comfortable place to be.

    Or passing out drunk. Coin toss.
  7. firefighterjake Minister of Fire

    joined: Jul 22, 2008
    13,477 posts
    Unity/Bangor, Maine
    You and I have already "spoke" . . . and I think you already know the friends and support you have here at the hearth . . . from folks you have met in person, folks you may some day meet in person and folks you may never meet in person.

    To say that you are not in many of our thoughts and prayers almost goes without saying . . . but in my usual way . . . I've said it.

    Oh yeah, not that it helps a whole helluva lot in a time like this . . . but I've sent you a package. Look for it on Friday . . . at least that's when the USPS says it should arrive.
  8. shmodaddy Member

    joined: Sep 12, 2011
    193 posts
    So IL
    So sorry...............:(

    Sent from my rooted and eclipse running X2--thanks nitro-- if im posting on here I'm probably supposed to be working! I can't help im addicted to HEARTH.COM!
  9. northwinds Minister of Fire

    joined: Jul 9, 2006
    1,082 posts
    south central WI
    There are no words for that amount of pain. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
  10. Tramontana Member

    joined: Oct 23, 2012
    196 posts
    Wheat Ridge, Colorado
    I am extremely saddened for you, that is a tough row to hoe.

    Trust that it will get better. I know these words may sound hollow, but it does get better.

    My thoughts are with you.

    Cheers.
  11. fishingpol Minister of Fire

    joined: Jul 13, 2010
    1,899 posts
    Merrimack Valley, MA
    My condolences Jags. I hope you may find solace in the good memories you had together.

    Thoughts go out to your Dad too.
  12. lukem Minister of Fire

    joined: Jan 12, 2010
    3,140 posts
    Indiana
    Hang in there...stay strong my friend and may peace be with you.
  13. Flatbedford Minister of Fire

    Wow my friend that is quite a kick in the lunchbox. I'd burning stuff and drinking too much too. Try to be careful. I know you are hurting, but I'm guessing there are others that need you right now. Make sure you don't leave them feeling like you do now. Hang in there and know that you have friends here.
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  14. MasterMech Minister of Fire

    joined: Aug 2, 2011
    4,806 posts
    Hudson Valley NY
    Jags,

    You have my deepest sympathies.

    Deepest Condolences,
    Brian
  15. Monosperma Member

    joined: Jun 4, 2011
    109 posts
    Colorado/NewMexico
    Jags, I am truly sorry to hear of these losses. Now would be an excellent time, though, to show the alcohol who is boss. Be strong.
  16. Jags Super Moderator

    joined: Aug 2, 2006
    11,309 posts
    Northern Illinois
    I own the beer - it does not own me.
  17. Monosperma Member

    joined: Jun 4, 2011
    109 posts
    Colorado/NewMexico
    Very glad to hear that. I did not mean to sound all preachy at you.
  18. PapaDave Minister of Fire

    Jags, I posted this once before, but I hope it can help in some small way.
    It's my wife's sig. line. I'm sure your SO felt this way about you.
    "If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together....there is something you must always remember.

    You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.

    But the most important thing is, even if we're apart.....I'll always be with you."

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  19. jharkin Minister of Fire

    joined: Oct 21, 2009
    2,061 posts
    Holliston, MA USA
    Jags I am SOOOO SOOOO sorry to hear what happened. Prayers for you and yours.
  20. Tramontana Member

    joined: Oct 23, 2012
    196 posts
    Wheat Ridge, Colorado
    Nobody "owns" beer...


    ...we only rent it. :)

    (I don't intend to be insensitive Jags, only trying to add a little humor)
  21. fossil Super Moderator

    joined: Sep 30, 2007
    9,157 posts
    Bend, Oregon
    You know I'm right here, shipmate.
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  22. GAMMA RAY Minister of Fire

    joined: Jan 16, 2011
    1,980 posts
    PA.
    <digital great big hugsys> all around...:)
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  23. tfdchief Minister of Fire

    joined: Nov 24, 2009
    2,971 posts
    Tuscola, IL
    Sorry Jags.
    Prayers,
    Steve
  24. guy01 Member

    joined: Dec 16, 2007
    165 posts
    northern PA
    Very very sorry Jags In our prayers as well
    Guy
  25. Doing The Dixie Eyed Hustle Minister of Fire

    joined: May 27, 2008
    3,993 posts
    Ridge, LI, NY
    Jags, lot's of positive vibes coming your way, and tons of cyber hugs. We're here if you need us.

    And tons of super duper extra special Dixie & Matisse snuffles coming at ya.

    Deepest condolences to you. I'm so sorry to hear this.

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