I have a few questions about babysitting a fire. My little Avalon insert. Is a tricky little thing. I burn small to medium fires I don't pack it real full. Also with my insert I cant close the air all the way it will go out no matter what I do. My issue is that it seems like I have to sit and watch the fire constantly. Low it goes out alot trying to do a medium burn it will be fine for a while then it seems like if I leave the room for a second it becomes an inferno and my flue temp get to high. How do you guys get good steady burns mine seem to either try to crap out or turn into a inferno.