From the sounds of this, with a P68 and flames the size you are talking about (as long as they are active, sharp tip flames), it should be 80+ degrees in your stove room as long as you do not have a lazy or dirty flame and the flame continues to always be that high and doesn't ramp down when you are not in the room. It almost sounds to me like your stove might be stuck in "Fireplace" mode which is where you can see a large flame for aesthetic purposes, but little heat is produced into the room because the distribution blower is turned off. So like if you had company over at your house for a get together and really wanted to display a nice size fire for them but didn't want to roast them out, this is what you would set your stove to run at. So is the distribution blower working? Can you feel a good amount of hot air being blown out of the top front of the stove into the room? If not, then it sounds like the distribution blower is either not working correctly, is stuck in "fireplace mode", or maybe the quality of pellets you are burning really do not have a good BTU output. But a P68 should be cranking out the heat no matter what the temperature is outside and I bet you could burn the lowest quality pellets and still get the stove room to be at least 70.
I know in my Harman manual, to get the stove in fireplace mode, you have to set the dial to stove temp mode, have the temperature dial set below 3 (which would also be in the 63 to 64 degree mark on the knob), and have the toggle switch set to manual. So I would double check those 3 settings to see if maybe this might be where it is currently set. I know you said you have it set in room temp mode, but maybe you have either mistaken, someone else other then you changed it since you last check it, or maybe the stove is malfunctioning, or perhaps whoever assembled the stove at the factory accidentally mounted the stove temp / room temp control knob upside down which would make the stove temp mode on the bottom and room temp mode on the top?? If this knob was accidentally mounted up side down, then your off selection would be at the 9:00 O' clock position instead of the 3:00 O' clock position. Check those few things out and let us know what you find.
Attached is the particular page out of the Harman Manual talking about the fireplace mode settings:
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