Does anyone have or use any particularly good tool for manipulating coals and/or burning splits when reloading, or for moving a split back that has rolled to the side? Or thoughts/advice about this, generally? I have good gloves (my three year old scolded me today for not using them on a reload), but with a large firebox I don't always feel like reaching too far in there, and there are some hot splits I wouldn't grab. Then again I worry about damaging the stove with a tool.