We're getting a new puppy and will keep it in a comfortable crate at night. It has been a long, long time since I had a puppy so have forgotten the tips and tricks to get through those first few weeks where it will cry/whine all night.
Me and SWMBO disagree on the issue of responding to it's crying. I feel it is crying for attention and responding to it or shushing it or any reaction from us will teach it to cry and receive attention in return. SWMBO says that will alienate it and reduce the bonding and wants us to talk to it when it cries. She cites various references that says this. We plan to keep the crate in our bedroom, hoping at least the proximity to us will provide small comfort to it. I'm wondering if it should be in our family room where our every toss and turn won't make it cry.
I am mentally preparing myself for the sleepless nights, she's never been through the experience and I do not expect her to do well with it. Advice please!
Me and SWMBO disagree on the issue of responding to it's crying. I feel it is crying for attention and responding to it or shushing it or any reaction from us will teach it to cry and receive attention in return. SWMBO says that will alienate it and reduce the bonding and wants us to talk to it when it cries. She cites various references that says this. We plan to keep the crate in our bedroom, hoping at least the proximity to us will provide small comfort to it. I'm wondering if it should be in our family room where our every toss and turn won't make it cry.
I am mentally preparing myself for the sleepless nights, she's never been through the experience and I do not expect her to do well with it. Advice please!