Well, we have our wood stove. When I last wrote the forum, I received some great insights. Thanks for that. As I look into the other room, I see the fire blazing, but I don't know why. Three minutes ago it was dead. Nothing. It seems to have a mind of its own. My husband is a "professional" fire layer, so he doesn't understand how it is so difficult for me to keep a fire going. I am originally from Southern California, but I'm a quick learner. Really. My question is, when is the best time to put on the big logs? I'm fine when I have the kindling, fat sticks, and smaller logs, but the minute I put on a big log, everything burns out. Very frustrating. My husband will be here any minute, so I have to turn off the oil heat and pretend the house is toasty because of my newfound prowess. Thanks!