Although I haven't thought it through to the point of doing it, this is where I would be headed for fittings on an LP hot water storage tank, 500 gal or larger, installed horizontally.
1) Near the top at each end, I would cut a hole and extend a 2" black steel pipe about 3 feet into the tank, parallel with the top, and about 8" down from the top. The pipe would have a series of holes drilled into it, probably 1/2" each, in a straight line, with the holes aligned on the "up" side of the pipe once it is welded in place. The end of the pipe exiting the tank would be threaded, of course, to take 2" or with an adapter smaller pipe connections. One of these would be used for hot water supply to the tank and the other for hot water draw from the tank. I think this would pretty well insure that supply or draw would result in minimal mixing, even at very high flow rates.
2) Better alternative: extend the pipe all the way through the tank, end to end, with the drilled holes, etc. This would be even better and may allow hot water draw actually to pull from hot water supply, if the supply was active at the time of draw.
3) Do the same at the bottom of the tank, about 8" off the bottom, holes aligned on the "down" side, for return to boiler and return from system.
4) Other fittings, as desired, for monitoring, etc. The normal fittings on the tank might be sufficient for this.
5) If the tank does not have a drain at the bottom, or only a 1/2" drain, I would replace that with a larger drain fitting. A 1/2" fitting takes a long time to drain a large tank.
There is a good chance I will be building a new shop, and if so, I will me moving the Tarm and 1000 gal LP storage tank next summer. If so, this is where I may be headed on fittings.