Yeah right. When the first ice dams this built in 1985 house had that ripped the gutters off it in 2010 it had soffit and gable vents. I wish you luck with that. I had the roof ripped off of the sucker and a ridge vent installed.
Too many studies out there prove that gable and ridge together "short circuit" the venting. And that rising heat clears the ridge vent.
Lots of contractors know how to build soffits and some even put in enough vents but unfortunately the folks who put in insulation tend to forget to install "proper vents " under the roof deck and plug the air flow with insulation. I expect that you got lucky the second time around and the contractor got it right so ridge vent or gable vent it still wouldn't dam. I had a home in Northeast Wisconsin I bought in the fall, I soon learned from the neighbors that the couple who owned it had constant ice damming issues. During the inspection I has noticed insulation stuffed in space between the top of the wall and soffits. Soon after I moved in it snowed and I saw ice dams. I spent a couple of weekends with a pole and hook pulling out the insulation and it was quite noticeable how the ice damming went away. I then installed proper vents and put another layer of insulation in the attic pushed right up against the proper vents. I didn't have any issues the rest of the winter.
I have two structures currently one with gable vents, one without, both have vent a ridge. I would tend to agree that with a couple of inches of snow and sunny day, the ridge vents do clear. Put in 24" of snow and neither one ever melts out on either roof.
It all comes down to extremes. The areas in Mass and southern NH don't typically get sustained deep snow while my area in northern NH does. Therefore the construction details that impact ice damming aren't as important in the south but when there is unusual winter they suffer. The design snow load (which is proportional to the potential snow depth) for Mass used to be as low as 30 psf (more recently upped to 55 psf), the town about 800 feet west of my house, Randolph NH has a 110 PSF ground snow load while my town has a paltry 100 PSF load. I do have many years with 3 plus feet on my roof on 3.5/12 pitch roof (fairly shallow for my area) and have never had a trace of ice damming in 25 years. If its gets up over 4' I usually shovel it. The majority of the homes in my neighborhood are the same as the local contractors eventually had a clue or folks like myself who DIY make sure that its done right and for the vast majority that's gable end vents with optional vent a ridge.
The only higher snows loads in NH than Randolph are in unorganized townships in the heart of the mountains that have few residential buildings they peak out at 115 PSF Just south of me is Pinkhams Grant (115 psf) on the side of Mt Washington, its on a major highway but they get lots of snow, this article about the 1968 to 1969 snow years is quite interesting
http://www.ohcroo.com/winter_of_1969.cfm They have gable vents on their buildings. There is a reference in the article about roofs collapsing on commercial buildings in Berlin NH which is north of Pinkhams Grant in 1969 . Pitched roofs became popular on many of the replacement buildings. A local contractor resorted to building "periscope" vents
, these about 12x12 inch wide at the base 4 to 6 feet high tapering outwards slightly with a cupola roof on top. They are mounted on the ridgepole and stick up in the air with louvers on all four sides. They look darn peculiar, I thought they were some sort of purple martin bird house and it took me awhile to find someone who knew the history and they were built in direct response to the winter of 69 so the attic would always vent no matter what the snow depth. Most of the buildings with that detail are getting old and have been torn down but there are still some around.
I expect the response in Mass after the winter is over is stick with what normally works and the low bid gets the job so many of the details to prevent the 1 in 20 year events don't get installed. Most folks don't plan to stay in their home for many more years so they roll the dice and hope they aren't there for the next snowy winter. Roof cables work but the UV deteriorates them so eventually they short out and are removed. One detail I haven't seen for years in my area are wide metal flashings that extend up from the base of the roof for 3 or 4 feet. My understanding is the ice and water shield has replaced it as it goes down quicker and doesn't require a skilled tradesman. I do occasionally see valleys flashed that way.