I just cleaned my serenitys a few days ago. I should have taken pics. Next time I will. But I can burn probably 10-12 bags before I clean the stove, and I clean it then mainly for the glass. The ash box is maybe 15-20% of capacity at most. I'd bet if I really needed to, I could burn a full ton before cleaning. I just like a clean glass as the flame acts as a night light for the whole house during the dark winters. And,...I burn on low settings exclusively.
So IMO, you have either some bad pellets, or some bad settings. The flame should average about 6-10" from the bottom of the burn pot, and be bright, very light yellow with almost a white hot center.
Once you have the serenity set right and use a good pellet, you might be surprised how efficient it actually is.
How is your exhaust and combustion intake plumbed? Did you make note of where the "gate" on the intake is set. You can see it when the stove is OFF and you remove the burn pot. There is a round hole that will have a slide that partially closes off that hole. Start with it about 1/3 open or so. You can go into your electronic controller and make fan setting changes for both the combustion fan and the room fan. Even though I run my stoves on the lowest heat settings, I do run the combustion fan on 85 volts and sometimes in certain situations I will go to 90 volts if it's breezy outside.
Another point to make is that the holes in the burn pot must be kept open. It is one of the poorer designs and the bottom holes will plug up. It may sound like a pita, but before each start up, take a flash light and a small stick or screwdriver, and just scrape across the bottom of the burn pot a few times to loosen the hardened ash that sticks to it and closes off the holes.
Here's my burn pot after last nights burn, and the ash box after about 4-5 bags.
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And here are the 3 items I keep handy by the stove. A free harbor freight led light, a harbor freight screw driver, and a good box cutter for opening bags. You can see a few of the holes in the bottom of the pot are pretty well plugged, and a few others are starting. The screw driver scraping across it a few times will take care of it. At random intervals I do take the pot out to the shop and use a drill bit the same size of the holses originally and run it thru all the holes to remove the small amount of hard carbon that builds up.
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