I had the stove that was a size smaller, the grandma bear. During the coldest weather of the year I would burn a face cord (1/3 of a full cord) of wood a week keeping my 2000 sq foot home between 64-74 degrees. In all, I'd go through about 5-6 full cord per winter.
You have a bigger stove and a bigger house, so you can do the math
I ran a stove pipe damper in my stove. Just remember that you really shouldn't close it all the way off, even though they do have holes built in them. I used to run mine at a 45 degree angle.
However, once I built a baffle plate for my stove, I no longer needed to use the pipe damper.
Here's what it looks like. Some people's stoves came with these in them already (not firebrick lined but rather a sheet of boiler plate) mine did not come w/ one and I could look right up the stove pipe
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