Ashful also runs an oil boiler for baseline heat. In cold weather the stoves are sometimes supplemental.
It's hard to give you the best advice from 3000 miles away. A wood/gas or oil combo furnace might be a good solution, but there is no way I can tell remotely what it would take to duct it for best heating or most cost effective results. That's something that needs eyes on site for. Other things to consider with a furnace are convenience, is there a basement entrance for bringing in wood? How would it be safely vented? I am not a big fan of heating from the basement with a wood stove. Sometimes it works out, but often there is a lot of heat loss or a large imbalance in temperature. If the basement is uninsulated the heat loss will be significant.
I guess I would really need insulated ducts to make it effective. There's an external basement entrance. That could become a pain in the ass if I need to load the furnace a lot. I will insulate the basement regardless if I put a furnace in or not. Too many variables, my brain is overwhelmed right now.
. Next step is to spray foam the attic and seel all the air leaks. This is the key seal all air leaks up then you can use other types of insualtion. If you have air leaks it doent matter if you have 10 feet of insulation, cold air goes roght threw it. I think the biggest thing for your older place is no insualtion. A second stove which is awesome, but will also put more stress for your wife. A second stove tho can be done a lot faster and cheaper then insulating your whole house. But the insualtion will be good for all the seasons, this is why i mentioned above if you plan on living their for a long time. 
