When one has one of those discussions and we all have had them, We might as well be in the woods talking to trees. Where is it said honey do list are unilatteral? I mean I could never figure out when to paint a room? or how to alot my weekend time? When is it my fault the boiler is not making enough hot water? I mean my wife's car's breaks squeak. Yeah I drove it 500 of the 50,000 miles.