It is reasonable to give some thought to the emissivity of the paint, but the practical fact is that despite their visible-wavelength differences, light paint and dark paint behave nearly alike at infrared wavelengths.
Here's a handy chart of total infrared emissivities:
http://www.omega.com/temperature/Z/pdf/z088-089.pdf
This chart is published for infrared thermometry purposes, and the emissivity values for the various paints (p. 2) are around room temperature, meaning that they are for infrared wavelengths in the 10-micron range. (This is the peak emission wavelength of room-temperature objects.) A wood stove at 500F has an emission peak more like around 5 microns, but that is still different from visible wavelengths (0.4 - 0.7 microns) by a factor of ten... which often means that the infrared emissivity can be surprisingly different from the emissivity you'd guess based on visual appearance.
If you were looking at a stove made of polished metal, then you'd have reason to worry, since most polished metals have quite low infrared emissivities. My stove vents through a stainless stovepipe and my infrared thermometer reads this pipe way low, like by a factor of two, due to the low emissivity (and the fact that the thermometer is calibrated for everyday materials). As a side note, the phenomenon of the "hot tin roof" is based on the fact that the shiny roof absorbs some visible sunlight, but can't radiate it away due to the low
infrared emissivity of the metal... thus the shiny roof which seems like it ought to stay cool can be nearly as hot as a black tarpaper roof in bright sun. And just to drag rocket science into it, space vehicles are pretty much limited to radiative cooling (and heating) by the vacuum in which they operate. The reason you see gold foil (think back to the Apollo vehicles) and other exotic materials on them is that the engineers are playing the hot-tin-roof game, trying to control the internal vehicle temperatures by balancing the visible and thermal emissivities of the various materials and pigments that they're covered with.
If you have an infrared thermometer and are a thorough kind of guy, you could do some testing of your proposed paints by painting a small patch of each somewhere inconspicuous on the stove (or even on a separate piece of steel), then heat the surface (e.g. fire the stove) and compare readings with your IR thermometer... my bet is that they'll be within a few degrees of each other, indicating very similar total emissivities.
Finally on a practical note, I have a Jotul with off-white porcelain (guess you could call it almond) and I must say that it throws heat like crazy. Much better than the above-mentioned stainless pipe, when both are at equal temperatures. I don't have a black paint patch on the stove (yet) to compare, but based on more decades of experience than I'd like to admit with black cast iron heaters, I'd say there's little to no difference in the heating ability of the white stove.
Eddy