how long are you burning to get the top to 500-550? I can't burn with the damper open over 3-4 minutes, or i hit over 1100 in the flue.
I reload at 400-450 (approx) on stovetop,,hot coals,,, packing it full. Usually, as soon as i get it loaded, i close the bypass (because i load hotter then most people). I set my air in front at notch 3 and almost immediatly the flue temp will start climbing, (afterburner lights as soon as i close bypass) while the stovetop will be cooling down due to all the new wood shielding it from the heat and the air going (downdraft) down the front and back thru the afterburner in back of the stove.
About 45-90 minutes after reload the flue will climb to 1000-1200 degrees unless i shut the front air down to just under the first notch. The flue will stabilize between 700-900 while burning off the gas, (air down) depending on the day and temp outside,,,,then drop down to 400-500 for the rest of the burn cycle. If i shut air off completely,,,before the flue gets high,,,i can hold flue temps down to 600-750 while burning. The stovetop will be gradually raising to 500-600 during this. When the load is done offgassing,,,the flue temp will drop like a rock,,,and i start running the stove by the stovetop,,,,, opening the air more, as needed, to keep the stovetop at 500-600. As soon as the air control cannot hold stovetop over the 400,,, I reload and start again.
If i am leaving,,,I load,,, shut bypass, move air to 1/2 to 3/4 notch open and leave. The stove will burn for 12 hours or so with stovetop getting to 600 and then running about 400 for last 50% of burn cause i am not there to open air. If I leave air over that first notch,,,my digitals will report high temps of 1000-1300 deg in the flue,,,so i dont do that.
your temps will vary,,,just saying what happens at my house on my TL300. I use digital probes in flue.